Sugar Glider HELP! She hates me!?

Honestly she sounds like a normal sugar glider to me. I would slow down a little, give her some more time to herself. Go very slow. Keep hand feeding her a mealworm or two a day to gain her trust, but don't force yourself on her. Sugar gliders like small spaces where they can feel safe, so I recommend getting a soft pouch from the pet store. She should crawl right in, and then you can hold the pouch in your lap. Good luck.